What to do if your Life partner is toxic

You can't live a happy and fulfilling life if your life partner is toxic and unsupportive. Once a wise men said that you should always choose your life partner very carefully because they will be the reason of 90% of your happiness or sorrows. You spent all of your hour other than work with them. You create and raise your children with them. Everything can go wrong if the tuning between you and your partner is not correct. But the question is what exactly the solution. What if you do everything from your side but your partner is not performing their role correctly.

Signs of a toxic partner

• They always tries to shame you for your habits, lifestyle and everything you do. They tires to instill an inferiority complex in your mind.
• They generally hate your friends and family. And they argue with you when you spent time with your family and friends.
• They don't give you your space in the relationship. 
• They have the tendency to always take & take in the relationship. They never want to give anything back in the relationship.
• Everything and anything is always about them. Your likes, dislikes and happiness does not matter much to them.
• You will feel like walking on eggshells.
• You will feel like that its only you who is putting all the effort in the relationship and everything is one sided.
• Constant arguments, tantrums and complains. You feel like there is no peace in life.
• Sometimes it also happen that your close family and friends detect that your partner is toxic but you are not able to recognize may be because you are blind by love.

Why it is necessary to get rid of a toxic partner

If a person is toxic or has become toxic over the time, then he will hardly recognise other person's problems and feelings. So you can not expect any kind of empathy or apology from that person. Also you can not change somebody who does not want to change. And any toxic person will ever want to change. Because he or she will always think that its all your fault. So, when the other person neither wants to change nor wants to show any kind of compassion to you, then the only sensible option you have left with is to leave that person. But you have to do that smartly as well, because most toxic people are egocentric. So, they will hardly tolerate that their partner is leaving them. They will play all kind of manipulative and dirty games to stop you. So its better to have a well planned exit strategy.

How to get rid from a toxic partner

• Build a financial support system for yourself if you are financially dependent on them. Get a job first, if required enhance your qualification by joining any course for that. Its extremely important to be financially independent.
• Be firm at decision of leaving them. Remember your toxic partner will play all kind of manipulation games to stop you. They might turn good to you in order to change your mind. Don't fall in their trap.
• Involve your family members and close friends in the separation process. Clearly tell them of the entire situation and give them every update. They will be your emotional pillar in this tough time.
• Keep in mind that you deserve someone better who treat you right, loves you and respect you. If you are a women and your husband does not loves you, believe me you are living in a hell. And if you are a men who is disrespected by your wife then you are facing worst than hell. Women needs love and men needs respect. Just remember that.
• If you are in a married relationship then you will require legal help to finalise divorce. But even you were living in a live in relationship then you can consult legal help if your partner abused you. So don't ever be shy to take help from authorities like police and law if you are under threat of abuse or attack.